Imagine you have taken a long cruise on an ocean liner. You're headed to an interesting destination. Yet along the way, you realize that your shipmates are comprised of obnoxious bores. Will that ruin your trip? It could, but it certainly doesn't have to. Even if you had imagined that part of the experience would be socializing, there are many other great things to take advantage of. The beautiful landscapes along the way, the lovely sea breeze, gorgeous sunrises and sunsets, and delicious meals. With a current disappointment in your personal life, you need to focus on the good stuff instead of whatever may have gone wrong. There are plenty of good things to be excited about.