Some people believe that we have preset destinies and we chose our path before we are born. We choose our own path for learning and enlightenment purposes. Some things on our path involve joy, and some involve struggles and hardships. You may now be going through something tough, Gemini. You may be having a hard time figuring out why you are facing this issue. If you can go by the philosophy that this is a lesson you chose, or maybe you didn't choose but this is a lesson you need in your life, then you can make something good out of it, and it won't be as difficult to deal with. Try it.