You are not a hostile, unkind, or rude individual. You are generally pretty agreeable, open-minded, and good-hearted. However, someone around you now may be bringing out the worst in you. Because you have such high standards for yourself, if you react to this person with meanness or rudeness in return, it will bother you deeply. Keep things in perspective and try to remember that sometimes bad behavior is caused by that person's difficult circumstances. Try to be helpful rather than being on the defensive.