Someone close to you - such as a family member - has a very different set of values. You may not agree on much, and you might wind up in arguments or conflict a lot of the time. However, there could be something significant that you can learn from this person if you allow yourself to "study" a current argument. By trying to see this person's point of view from their perspective - as though you were living it - it will give you insight into their character, and it might make this person more endearing. Since this is someone you can't avoid, it would be better to seek harmony. Understanding is the foundation of compassion.