Someone in your personal life may be taking an argumentative approach to solving a disagreement with you, dear Cancer. That's definitely not the best way to interact with you. That kind of harsh approach causes you to either put your claws up or to withdraw into your shell. You don't like conflict, but you are always ready to defend yourself. If this occurs today, try to express your naturally gentle personality rather than retreating or engaging in a fight. You can change the tone and the dynamic this way, and it will lead to a good solution.