You may be slowly discovering that your assumptions about someone were very wrong and that, consequently, your actions toward them were also wrong. You may now see that you hurt the other party deeply, but you can't undo or erase what has happened because of it. It's wonderful that you can now see the light, dear Virgo, but your virtuous spirit will not be satisfied until you take steps to make amends. Reaching out and explaining your side of it can be very healing - both for you and for the other person.